Yes, I know how to spell.

Idollizing Is a relationship between to peple.

In Idollism, there is one person who is the Idollizer and one who is the Idoll.

Idollization is not defined by sexual preference, or even a hidden hope of a “personal” in the flesh relationship.

An Idoll can be any human being that has an idollizer.

An Idollizer can be any human being that has an Idoll.

An Idollic relationship can not exist without consent.

An idollistic relationship doesn’t have identity boundaries.

An idollic relationship can be between a man and a woman, a man and a man, and a woman andwoman. And any combination of LBQT

Ruleism is not in the mix, but having more than one idoll or idollizer diminishes the power of the bond.

The LGBTQIA+ umbrella term is used to recognize the diversity of gender and sexual identities, and to be inclusive of people who may not be fully represented by the acronym. Anyone can can be an idollizer and wiith concent, anyone can be an idoll.

Let’s get the Identity peice out of the way. It’s not important.

For the sake of explaining things, Let me dive deeper by explaining my idollization with my Idoll.

I idollize my idoll.

My idoll recognizes me as her idollizer. And she’s flattered. It’s not worship but sort of an adulation. She gets a kind of confidence boost with our Idollic relationship.

“hey Susan, I saw your picture on this dudes website.” Susan says “Yeah I’m his Idoll.”

I have met Susan and had some interaction with her. Two years ago.

I don’t really have any desire to meet her again face-to-face. It’s more special this way.

If she needs help with anything and I have it, it’s all hers. If I need a sounding board, I can call her, and she’s there for me.

My girlfriend knows about my idoll. Her boyfriend knows about me, her idollizer.. So far they both get it.

Don’t actively seek your Idoll.

Finding your idoll is unexpected, looking for her is futile. When she appears in your life both of you will know.