Hi, It’s me Robert
A diatribe is a long, angry speech or piece of writing that criticizes someone or something
An Open Letter to men Who Hit Women
Look how beautiful she is. And you hit her? And somehow you thought that would be a solution?
Let’s have a Look at the laundry list of your weaknesses.
1. Possessiveness : At the beginning of your relationship with her, you said that jealousy (actually possessiveness) is a sign of love. Possessiveness has nothing to do with love. It is a sign of a lack of trust and severe insecurity… You question her about who she talks to, accuse her of flirting, and keep her from spending time with her family, friends, and her kid (competing with a nine-year-old is beyond creepy). As the possessiveness progresses, you call her frequently during the day or drop by unexpectedly. You refuse to let her work for fear she might meet someone else, you even engaged in fucking checking her car mileage and asking friends to watch her. What a pussy.
2. Controlling Behavior: First, you will say your behavior is due to some bullshit concern for her safety, “yes I called everyone you know out of concern that you might be dead in a ditch. You tell her she needs to use her time well, or her need to make good decisions. You get angry if she is “late” coming back from the store or an appointment; You question her shit about where she went and who she spoke with. As your behavior progresses, you won’t let her make personal decisions about the house, her clothing, or even going to church. You want to keep all the money and even make her ask permission to leave the house.
3. Quick Involvement: That beautiful woman “allowed” you to date her which was a gift on her part. You come in like a whirlwind, claiming, “You’re the only person I could ever talk to”, or “I’ve never been loved like this by anyone.” You pressure her to commit to the relationship in such a way that later she feels very guilty or is “letting you down” if she wants to slow down or break up with you because you don’t know how to sack up and give her the love she deserves. And you don’t know how to fuck. The best way to end an argument is just dragging her to bed and showing her why God gave you that Johnson.
4. Unrealistic Expectations : being the asshole you are, you expect her to meet all your needs. You expect a perfect wife, mother, lover, and friend. You say things like “if you love me, I’m all you need, and you’re all I need.” She is expected to take care of everything for you emotionally and be there for you when you cry like a cunt about life being unfair. Boo Fuckin Hoo. Man up and take ownership of your life and hers and make things safe and comfortable for both of you.
5. Isolation : You try to cut her off from the other people in her life that make her happier than you do. How about being a real man and being real good to her and If she runs into somebody she’d rather be with than she is a gold digging whore and you dodge the bullet- let her go. It’s not the end of the world bro. However, let her be free, you met her because she is a butterfly. Stop acting like if like has male friends, she’s a “whore.” If she has women friends, she’s a lesbian. She’s “tied to the apron strings if she’s close to hermother who sees you as the piece of shit you are?.” You accuse people who are her support of causing trouble. You want to live in the country, without a telephone, and refuse to let her drive the car, you try to keep her from working or going to school because you don’t want her out in the world and find out what a weak ass bitch you are..
6. Blames others for problems : Of course you are chronically unemployed because someone is always doing you wrong or out to get you. You are a lazy fuck and you don’t know how to earn the money it takes to make her feel safe, sound and protected (and that’s kind of your job Hoss) You make thoughtless mistakes and then blame her for upsetting you and keeping you from concentrating on the task at hand. You tell her she is at fault for virtually anything that goes wrong in your life. Congrats! You got thr hard part – you found her, but you fucking amateur punks forget part two. get a fucking job and earn the money you both will need to build a life you lazy slob.
7. Hypersensitivity: You are humorless and easily insulted, you can’t take a joke. Fuck You. Claiming your feelings are hurt when in actuality you are angry or taking the slightest critisism as a personal attack. You rant and rave about the injustice of things that have happened, things that are just a part of living (for example being asked to work late, getting a traffic ticket, being asked to help with chores, or being told some behavior is annoying) because you are snivelling bitch.
8. Cruelty to children: Studies indicate that about 60% of men who physically abuse their women also abuse their children. What the fuck is wrong with you? You can’t EVEN talk to me about past trauma and how it’s made you react to shit the way you do. It’s a fucking excuse to be an animal.
9. Sexual abuse of her boundaries: You physically assault private parts of her body. You sometimes show little concern about whether she wants to have sex. You begin having sex with her while she is sleeping. You convince her to do sexual acts that she finds uncomfortable, unpleasant, or degrading. I’m kind of OK with this one, being with a real man might have her doing some shit she didn’t expect, but she might have to go ahead and take it. You can get her to do whatever you want if you make it fun and exciting, but of course, that would take thought, planning, and execution and you don’t have the balls to properly set up something experimental or kinky, because you are an idiot.
10. Verbal abuse: getting back to your weak ass shit, In addition to saying things to her that are intentionally meant to be cruel and hurtful, verbal abuse is also apparent in your degrading of her, cursing her, and belittling her accomplishments. You think you might convince her that she is unloveable, unattractive to anyone but you – and therefore, stay with you because no one else will ever want her. That’s a dick move, you know why? Because some chicks buy into that shit. And some of them stay with guys like you thinking they will otherwise be unwanted.
11. Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde personality : Your woman is confused by your sudden changes in mood. She may think you have some sort of mental problem because one minute you are agreeable, the next you are losing your shit. Explosiveness and moodiness are typical of men like you who beat their women. If a real man (not you), loves her that much, and he was disagreeable, (not violent) will make an attempt to apologize for his mistake and try to keep you because you are his dream girl and explain he had a momentary laps of reason.
14. Past beatings: You say you have hit women in the past, but blame them for needing to be “corrected. (e.g., “they made me do it”). Fuck you. The woman may hear from relatives or ex-partners that you are an abusive pussy with a small Gerkin, which it is what it is, but you never learned how to use it. A weak-ass puke will abuse any woman he is with if the relationship lasts long enough for the violence to begin; situational circumstances do not make A real man’s personality is never abusive. A real man If he does get angry, can say something critical of her that hurts much more than a black eye.
15. Threats of violence: This includes any threat of physical force meant to control her. “shut up” or “I’ll kill you,” and the lame – fits all sizes “You disrespected me.” You, sir, are a fuckin doosh bag. Real men do not threaten their women. Asshole that you are, you will try to excuse your threats by saying that everybody talks that way. She, as a Lady, deserves a man who sees her as strong beautiful, and an intelligent woman. Those are awesome characteristics but the miserable stains like you she has ended up with are a result of her not valuing yourself as the prize she is. For the life of me, I don’t know why these beautiful treasures of female humanity are drawn to dirt bags like you… but I see it everyday.
16. Breaking her: Getting back to the loser you are, you like to destroy things in her life that she might feel are more important than you. You think breaking loved possessions of her’s is a a punishment, but you just want to terrorize her into submission. You are a numb nutted waste of skin and you know it. You don’t have what it takes to to make the girl you say you love proud of you because you are a weak ass turd. A real man conducts himself in a way that his woman can be proud of.
17. It’s all about the nookie : I speak with a certain amount of authority, skill and experience. I also want to keep her from leaving and keep her and buy into my bullshit. She is a fucking rose. When I pick one, I don’t want to let go. I also have challenges keeping women. Like you, fuck face amateure rookie punk, I have anger to. But I learned something along time ago that you did not. I suppose I could beat a woman into submission, But , for me, I don’t want to damage her physically to get what I need from the *****. I am a lover, not a fighter and sometimes I just need to shut the bitch up. You now how I do that? I throw her on the bed and make love to her like I am Adam and she is Eve. Women are complicated. I need them like you do – you wife beating stooge. We both want the same thing. But tryto get it in a different way. Simply put: You beat her, I eat her.
In closing a real man knows his dick and heart are more powerful than his fists.